So I share a personality type with Buffy Summers, Leslie Knope, Caetlyn Stark, Princess Jasmine, and Bones.
Alison Dilaurentis, Piper Halliwell, and Leonardo from TMNT, woot.
Tara from Buffy, Harry Potter, Frodo and Britta Perry…
“I like fangirls how I like my coffee. I hate coffee.” Three days after being spotted on a T-shrt for sale at WonderCon, this idiotic slogan is still making waves in the geek community.
Why? Well, for one thing, it seems like a perfect example of the hostile environment women have to deal with when they attend conventions. However, the T-shirt’s manufacturer, Tankhead Custom Tees, has just come forward to explain why the shirt isn’t sexist.
“the fangirl/fanboy shirts can best be explained like this: fangirls/boys =/= fans. Fans are people who like and genuinely respect a fandom, and it’s creators. Fangirls/boys are like those creepy fedora wearing neckbearded bronies, or hetalia fanfiction shippers, who make us all collectively cringe in pain at what they do to the things we love.
No one should ever defend these kinds of people. Seriously, they make the rest of us look bad.”
So, just to be clear here, the shirt isn’t insulting toward all women, just the ones who are the wrong kind of fan. And that’s totally not a gendered insult because bronies (i.e. male fans of a media source that’s traditionally aimed at girls) are repulsive as well. Right?
The idea that it’s OK to be disgusted by certain types of fan is pretty widespread in geek culture, and it’s ridiculous to suggest that this habit isn’t connected to sexist prejudice. In the nonsensical social strata of geekdom, “serious” sci-fi literature fans are somewhere at the top, Trekkies and comic book nerds are somewhere around the middle, and anything women are interested in is invariably right down at the bottom. Popular examples: Supernatural, YA novels with female protagonists, fanfiction, shoujo anime, and pretty much anything that’s popular on Tumblr.
It’s no coincidence that “fangirl” is most commonly used to describe women who read and write fanfiction. By the logic of people who use fangirl as a pejorative term, fans who spend hours reading and collecting superhero comics are at the cool, respectable end of the geek scale, while “fangirls” who write tens of thousands of words of superhero fanfic are embarrassing weirdos. In other words, if you conform to the old-fashioned, male-dominated form of fandom then you’re fine, but if you prefer to join the subculture that was primarily founded on the work of female fans, then it’s acceptable to publicly mock you at an event like WonderCon.
in honor of Mean Girls’ 10th anniversary, here’s an incredibly subtle but completely extraordinary joke that you’ve probably never noticed from the movie (I saw it at least a dozen times before it dawned on me): Regina George started a rumor that Janis Ian was a lesbian in the 8th grade, but it wasn’t out of malice… it was because Janis told her that she was Lebanese
I never noticed that and it’s pretty funny but still fuck that part of Mean Girls.
I know that being homophobic/ignorant fits with Regina’s character and Janis is just reacting to the consequences of what Regina did but they could have done it better. Yes I know that we are supposed to see how hateful Regina was back them but the whole lesbian thing just doesn’t sit right with me. I don’t normally like films to hammer home the morals but honestly I think Regina’s ignorance should have been addressed more bluntly or like at all. Just a line to acknowledge how shitty it.
Means Girls is still the honest answer to what is my favourite film though.
Kill the idea that naivety is an unforgivable flaw but cynicism is just wisdom, murder it, chop it up and serve it for dinner, I don’t care, just end this bullshit idea that it’s better to hate than to love and better to rot in miserable bitter resignation than to hope for the best.
I rarely use this to just blog. I’m going to just blog now, so you can all just ignore this if it’s not to your liking.
Warning. Contents under pressure.
Wow this is a rant for the ages. A-mazing.
Amazingly well written take on ‘fake geek girls’
(Shirt being referenced is from Wondercon: “i like my fangirls how I like my coffee. ..i HATE coffee.”)
my middle school diaries are actually pretty hilarious, in that i wrote stuff like “i can’t wait to get a boyfriend! boys are so cute!” and then followed that statement with three pages of sketches of the pretty girls in my class